婚姻有喜，但也有困扰！通常，困扰、悲伤的婚姻，比幸福、美满的婚姻来得多；因为要遇见好的伴侣很不容易，而且，人是会变的，感情若是要变，也常是轻而易举的事。
现代女性必须是「坚强的、有韧性的」。如果我们一直陷在惶恐不安、提心吊胆的情愫之中，真的，我们是不会有好日子过的。
所以，如果要我一直拚命顾守一个没有感情、甚至破碎的家，而终生一无所成，我不要！我要把感情放淡、看淡，勇敢地走出自己、做出自己的成绩，我不要一直被感情所困扰、束缚。
真的，人是很渺小、很微不足道的；可是，我们这个微小的人，若遇到情感不顺、不幸福，整个人真的是很痛苦的啊！
不过，在雨过天青时，或许我们可以转个念头－－有些事，绝不是我所能控制的，「一直担心」亦于事无补，所以，让我们去选择、去做一些更有意义的事吧，要来的，自然会来，但若上天怜悯我们，或许有些事，不会来。
因此，大声告诉自己－－我要勇敢，我一定可以挺得住，没有事可以难得了我，我或许长得不很漂亮，但，我一定要活得很漂亮，才能走出叔叔的背后，做一个人前的自己，无愧地对自己喜爱的大海大声呼叫﹕无悔今生！
i think after having gone through what i have gone through (& still inevitably going through) 
即使你曾经因为一时的不小心而与幸福擦肩而过，也不要太早放弃。
& oh... were also spending time with kids from church making sweets... :)
oops! disaster!!! mishaps are inevitable... the egg yoke not supposed to be in there, we just need the egg white only. alamak!!! :P
Through the Eyes of Love - Melissa Manchester
(Theme from Ice Castles)
Please, don't let this feeling end
It's everything I am
Everything I want to be
I can see what's mine now
Finding out what's true
Since I found you
Looking through the eyes of love
Now, I can take the time
I can see my life
As it comes up shining now
Reaching out to touch you
I can feel so much
Since I found you
Looking through the eyes of love
And now, I do believe
That even in a storm we'll find some light
Knowing you're beside me, I'm all right
Please, don't let this feeling end
It might not come again
And I want to remember
How it feels to touch you
How I feel so much
Since I found you
Looking through the eyes of love
When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke them
into being.When I created man, I formed him and breathed life into his
nostrils.But you, woman, I fashioned after I breathed the breath of life
into man, because your nostrils are too delicate.I allowed a deep sleep to
come over himMan was put to sleep so that he could not
interfere with the creativity.I chose the bone that protects man's life.
I chose the rib, which protects his heart and lungs and supports him, as you are meant to do.
Around this one bone, I shaped you....... I modeled you.
Your characteristics are as the rib, strong yet delicate and fragile.
You provide protection for the most delicate organ in man, his heart.
The ribcage will allow itself to be broken before it will allow damage to
the heart.Support man as the rib cage supports the body.
You were not taken from his feet, to be under him, nor were you taken from his head, to be above him.
You are my perfect angel.....You are my beautiful little girl.
You have grown to be a splendid woman of excellence, and my eyes fill when I see the virtues in your heart.
Your eyes...don't change them.
Your lips, how lovely when they part in prayer.
Your nose, so perfect in form.
Your hands so gentle to touch.
I've caressed your face in your deepest sleep.
I've held your heart close to mine.
Of all that lives and breathes, you are most like me.
Adam walked with me in the cool of the day, yet he was
lonely.
He could not see me or touch me. He could only feel me.So everything I wanted Adam to sahre & experience with me, I fashioned in you;
my Holiness, my Strength, my Purity, my Love, my Protection and Support.
You are special because you are an extension of me.Man represents my image,
woman my emotions.Together, you represent the totality of God.
Love her, respect her, for she is fragile.
In hurting her, you hurt Me.
What you do to her, you do to Me.
In crushing her, you only damage your own heart; the heart of your Father, and the heart of her Father.
Woman, support man.In humility, show him the power of emotionI have given you.
In gentle quietness, show your strength.
In love, show him that you are the rib
that protects his inner self.Did you not know that WOMAN is special in God's eyes?
习惯了两个人一起吃饭
A - to appreciate all blessings bestowed upon me & not take things for granted.
