from my sis...

got this frm my sis this morning. how timely & encouraging!

人在成长的过程中
难免遇到挫折
懂得保护自己
也要懂得爱自己
生命的乐章
看你自己如何谱写
躲避不一定躲得过
面对不一定最难受
得到不一定能长久
失去不一定不再有
转身不一定最软弱

别急着说别无选择
别以为世上只有对与错
许多事情的答案都不只一个
你能找到理由难过
也一定找到快乐
懂得放心的人找到轻松
懂得忘记的人找到自由
懂得关怀的人找到朋友

爱上秤子

read this frm a website blog this morning.
男天秤座：左右逢源的烂好人！乱放电、被动、诡辩!

除非妳有绝对的自信，要不跟这种有意无意就对身旁女生乱放电的天秤座美公子谈恋爱，那可不是普通人能承受的事，因为就算他不主动把妹，妹妹也会自动黏上他，真的是一个比花蝴蝶更花蝴蝶的男生，从不知如何拒绝别人，也不知自己究竟爱谁，反正只要有人要跟他瞎耗，他一律接受，从不知如何选择，因为每一个都有她的优点，更何况，如果不幸选错了，起码还有一个备胎可供排遣寂寞，像这样风度翩翩的温柔男子，真是没人想伤害他，所以说，错就错在是妳主动爱上他的，他可没这样要求妳喔！如果妳受不了他的优柔寡断、三心两意，还有不时爱诡辩的行为，而想要离开的话，相信他也不会拦妳，因为像他这种男人，不管他再爱妳，绝不会改变他被动跟懒惰的习性，反正身边还有一堆嘛！记住，妳永远只是他森林里的一株小草而已，要走请自便吧!

didnt realise it's such a sad thing to be in love with a Libra man... wonder if it's the same in the case of a Libra woman, considering I am a Libra.

天秤座的人真的有那么可怕吗?

are we really that 'flirty'? are we really that 'unappreaciative'? i dont think so, & i hope not. at least, i m not.

God's Letter to Women

it's International Women Day today (8 March) - i think it's time to post this. may this touch your hearts, as it had touched mine.

When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke them
into being.

When I created man, I formed him and breathed life into his
nostrils.

But you, woman, I fashioned after I breathed the breath of life
into man, because your nostrils are too delicate.

I allowed a deep sleep to
come over him

Man was put to sleep so that he could not
interfere with the creativity.

I chose the bone that protects man's life.

I chose the rib, which protects his heart and lungs and supports him, as you are meant to do.

Around this one bone, I shaped you....... I modeled you.

Your characteristics are as the rib, strong yet delicate and fragile.

You provide protection for the most delicate organ in man, his heart.

The ribcage will allow itself to be broken before it will allow damage to
the heart.

Support man as the rib cage supports the body.

You were not taken from his feet, to be under him, nor were you taken from his head, to be above him.

You are my perfect angel.....You are my beautiful little girl.

You have grown to be a splendid woman of excellence, and my eyes fill when I see the virtues in your heart.

Your eyes...don't change them.

Your lips, how lovely when they part in prayer.

Your nose, so perfect in form.

Your hands so gentle to touch.

I've caressed your face in your deepest sleep.

I've held your heart close to mine.

Of all that lives and breathes, you are most like me.

Adam walked with me in the cool of the day, yet he was
lonely.

He could not see me or touch me. He could only feel me.

So everything I wanted Adam to sahre & experience with me, I fashioned in you;

my Holiness, my Strength, my Purity, my Love, my Protection and Support.
You are special because you are an extension of me.

Man represents my image,
woman my emotions.

Together, you represent the totality of God.

Love her, respect her, for she is fragile.

In hurting her, you hurt Me.

What you do to her, you do to Me.

In crushing her, you only damage your own heart; the heart of your Father, and the heart of her Father.

Woman, support man.

In humility, show him the power of emotionI have given you.

In gentle quietness, show your strength.

In love, show him that you are the rib
that protects his inner self.

Did you not know that WOMAN is special in God's eyes?

Because of Love 因為愛

1. Because there's love in the heart, it's beautiful.
因為心中有愛，所以美好。

2. Because it's meant to be in love, it's beautiful.
因為有緣相愛，所以美好。

3. Because we are willing, and chose to love, it's beautiful.
因為我們願意，並選擇繼續愛下去，所以美好。

4. Because love brings us happiness, it's beautiful.
因為愛讓我們滿心歡喜，所以美好。

5. Because love makes us treasure the precious moments we share, it's beautiful.
因為愛讓我們懂得珍惜眼前美好的時光，所以美好。

6. Because love brings us hope, & life becomes meaningful with hope, it's beautiful.
因為愛會帶來期盼，而在期盼中，生命變得不再空洞，所以美好。

7. Because love leaves us memories, it's beautiful.
因為愛會為我們帶來回憶，所以美好。

8. Because there' love in our memory, & we can love once again in our memories, it's beautiful.
因為回憶中有愛，而在回憶中，我們可以再痛快地愛一次，所以美好。

9. Because we continue to love no matter what, it's beautiful.
因為無論世情如何幻變，我們仍然相信愛，仍然願意去愛，所以美好。

10. Because love teaches us humility & understanding, it's beautiful.
因為愛讓我們變得謙卑，學會包容，所以美好。

11. Because we chose the same person to love even when there are choices around us, it's beautiful.
因為當生命中還有其他的選擇，而我們還是選擇只愛這一個人，所以美好。

12. Because in the midst of corwd, in the midst of time, love causes us to meet, it's beautiful.
因為「於千萬人之中...於千萬年之中，時間的無涯的荒野裡」，愛讓我遇上了你，所以美好。

13. Because there's the smell of love on you, it's beautiful.
因為在你的衣服裡嗅到愛的氣味，所以美好。

14. Because your coffee is full of the flavour of love, it's beautiful.
因為你的咖啡帶有濃濃的愛的味道，所以美好。

15. Because love makes you appear in my dreams, & my dreams become colourful & sweet, it's beautiful.
因為愛把你牽引到我的夢中，而這個夢是彩色的甜甜的夢，所以美好。

16. Because there are books, literature, movies, music, photography & you in my life, it's beautiful.
因為生命中有書本，有文字，有電影，有音樂，有攝影，還有你，所以美好。

17. Because you have discovered love, it's beautiful.
因為在你的凝視中發現那溫柔的愛，所以美好。

18. Because every street & corner that we have passed has our trace of love, it's beautiful.
因為每條我們走過的街道和角落，都留下了我們的愛，所以美好。

19. Because love is uncontrollable, it's beautiful.
因為愛總是不由自主，所以美好。

20.Because we still can live & love, it's beautiful.
因為仍然活著而依然相愛，所以美好。

21. Because the depth of love warms our hearts so, it's beautiful.
因為愛那麼多，那麼濃，讓我們心頭暖暖的，所以美好。

22. Because love makes everything seems alright & minute, it's beautiful.
因為愛讓一切變得好像很有所謂，但又彷彿好像什麼也沒有所謂，所以美好。

23. Because of love, we ensures our love lives on, it's beautiful.
因為愛，所以我們希望把這份愛延續下去，無論用什麼形式也好，所以美好。

24. Because we love each other, it's beautiful.
因為擇其所愛，愛其所擇，所以美好。

25. Because love makes us forget our suffering, it's beautiful.
因為愛讓我們忘記那漫長的苦，無論那苦是什麼，所以美好。

26. Because love makes life full, it's beautiful.
因為愛讓生命變得堪值回味，所以美好。

27. Because we can still love, it's beautiful.
因為還可以去愛，終究是美好的事，所以美好。

28. Because love is love, it's beautiful.
因為愛就是愛，所以美好。

遺憾

如果此刻我會死去, 我這一生會否有什麼遺憾？



如果痴痴的等某日终于可等到一生中最爱...

其实你们不知道

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子在冲他们发火后自己转过身却在不断啜泣。

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子从来不会真正去生他们的气, 因为她是真的喜欢他在乎他。

其实很多男孩子都不知道，女孩子只会对自己喜欢的男生唠唠叨叨，也只会对自己喜欢的人耍性子。

你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会来在乎你关心你，怕你做错事情。

你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，她根本不会对你发火不会冲你撒娇让你哄她，在别人面前她都是淑女。

你要知道，假若她不喜欢你，你根本就没有本事让她哭泣，让她即使生气也不会超过1/2天。

而这一切都只是因为她喜欢你，而这一切都因为你还不够在意她, 不够懂她。

于是，你们时常争吵，你认为她脾气不好，她认为你不够迁就她。于是，你们总是冷战，你以为她不喜欢你，她以为你不在乎她。 要知道，凄美依然是美的一种，并且美的绚丽悲凉而沧桑，那是更加的美。

因为她喜欢你，所以她偶尔冲你发火，时常对你撒娇。

因为她喜欢你，所以她才会生你的气；而又因为喜欢你，她才不会去生气很久。

你可知道，每个女孩子的心都是水晶做的，晶莹剔透，但是很容易就碰伤摔碎。

你可知道，每个女孩子都是不设防的，你那么轻易就闯进她的心，走的时候却只留下伤害。

她从来都不知道，这个世界上根本没有可以让她哭的人，因为真正值得她哭的那个根本舍不得让她哭。

她会很矜持，她会很骄傲，她会很冷淡，她总是嘴里说着你走开，心里却一直叫你留下。

请你张开你的耳朵，也请你打开你的心，去听她心里真正的呼唤，而不是她嘴里的口是心非。

她会看着你转身，然后她跟著你转身，当侧身而过的时候，你看不见她的泪，滂沱在脸上心里。

如果你喜欢她，请你多陪她,如果你喜欢她，请你多宠她, 如果你喜欢她，请你多让她。

如果你喜欢她，请你去听听她内心的声音，那是呐喊──请拥抱她。

在爱情里，总是彼此伤害，彷佛这样才能证明自己爱得激烈爱到轰轰烈烈。

可是，爱情里没有孰对孰错,爱情里更加没有你比我多我比你少。

你爱她，她爱你，如此就已经足够。

不要试图让彼此的伤害，让彼此更加脆弱悲伤。

你们彼此相爱，你们需要的是温暖是幸福是甜蜜是快乐，不是伤害。

不要用沉默宣战，不要互不相让，更不要什么话都不讲就冷漠离去。

要知道，你离去的时候，你的眼睛起了雾，她的眼角泛著泪光。

越是安静战火就越传，这是冷战也是彼此的伤害──无论是怎么的复合，那些伤口曾经存在，抹不去的。

请跟她一个拥抱，用你的拥抱去化解她心里的悲伤与眼角的泪水。

她喜欢你，她绝对不会拒绝你的拥抱，她只会害怕你的冷漠转身无声安静。

请记住，相爱的人不要轻易宣战，因为冷战带来的伤害，超出你的预计。

也请记住，只要你喜欢她，没有什么是你接受不了的，只要你喜欢她，就喜欢她的一切一切。

那么她所有的小性子所有的坏脾气所有的臭毛病，在你眼里都是撒娇。 也请记住，她喜欢你，她需要的不是你真的转身，她嘴里说着的也不是她的真心话。 她只是想你宠她，想你抱她。

有几对恋人会懂对方..?有几对恋人就素因为这样,才最终成为普通朋友...