Friday, October 24, 2008

爱情

爱情的开始让人迷失自己。
爱情的甜蜜让人有点忘形。
爱情的痛苦让人无法承受。
爱情的结束也许人生快乐。

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Facebook residents - Your chance to do good!

if you have a big heart but a shallow pocket - this is for you.
if you have wanted to help mankind, but have no time - this is for you.
if you just wanted to give back to society and dunno where to begin - this is for you.



fancy sitting right there, with a few taps on the keyboard and a few clicks on the mouse and TA-DAAAA u have helped one of these organisations get a donation of $50,000? no, this is NOT spamming. and u dont even have to give a cent.

read on.

The Western Union Foundation was created to help individuals, families and communities worldwide. The Foundation supports charitable giving programs, education and human services programs and humanitarian projects and relief efforts.

NOW there’s more work to be done, more charities to support, more money to send. Help them choose the charity to get $50,000.

the charitable orgainisations in the list are as follows:

1) CARE - Empowering women in the fight against poverty.

2) Accion USA - Transforming lives with microloans

3) Room to Read - Providing 200 years of girls education in the developing world.

4) Opportunity International - Microfinance. End poverty in Kenya now.

5) American Red Cross - Preventing, preparing for and responding to emergencies.

6) UNICEF - Whatever it takes to save a child.

7) World Vision - Building a better world for children.

all you need to do is go to “Facebook-Our World Gives”- and cast your vote. you have got one life - do something, do it now!

DO it, please...you have got nothing to lose.




Friday, October 17, 2008

十字路口的心理测验


假设你站在中央,有东、南、西、北四个方向的路,请问你会选择哪一条走?


A.往南走
B.往北走
C.往西走
D.往东走


我选择了D。


D.往东走
做事态度上,你是做事稳重、事业心较强的人。遇挫折会有放弃念头,但从事喜欢的工作则不会,算是有始有终的成功者。因此找出你的兴趣,做你爱做的工作很重要。
做人态度:在人际交往上,能取得平衡,因此颇有人缘。待人和善,可公正处理人事纠纷,不得罪任何一方。缺乏热情,因此在恋爱时,常处被动的地位,易错失良缘。




你呢?


A.往南走
做事态度上,你容易受挫折,常有挫折感,很难找到自己满意的工作。你需要很多助手帮你完成工作,依赖性较重。有太多期望,对自己的能力表现要求较高,使自己变得更加胆怯。对新的事物,常常犹豫不定是否要尝试。
做人态度:觉得自己不受欢迎,因此个性软弱,需贴心的朋友肯定自己的决定。不易交到朋友,因为你常躲避人群,认为多数人都不友善,因此能交到的知心朋友也不多。



B.往北走
做事态度上,你是苦干型人物,也有相当好的领导能力。你不会轻易插手干涉或处理别人的事。因此不轻易向人求助,也不善于体谅别人的需要,常是孤独的工作者。
做人态度上,你总是经过衡量之后,才选择和谁做朋友。常将所有的感情都经过理性的分析,因此你的朋友多半是因互相需要而在一起。如果配不上你的朋友,常常因得不到你的友情而终将离你而去。



C.往西走
做事态度上,你极富责任感,但是必须在别人要求或监视之下才肯做好,能顺从别人是你做事的一大特色,并不十分坚持己见。对于个人兴趣和选择工作亦是如此。工作的选择深受身边人的影响很大,能否成功与身边的人有很大的关系。
做人态度:待人非常热忱,重视朋友,但有时太过热情,反而弄巧成拙。因为不懂区分朋友,错将人人都当成好朋友,有过度热情的倾向。在人际关系上,因领悟力差而内心常感寂寞空虚。




Tuesday, October 14, 2008

happy birthday to me!

给亲爱的自己: 生日快乐 !

昨晚的我好迟训。。。为了等他的一通电话。 之前佢讲唔会打俾我,因为怕太夜,叫我先训。但係我话我会等。 结果放工到家都已经9点多。。。睇下电视,发下白日梦,唔惊唔觉就已经凌晨1点多。依然无乜睡意,但係觉得再唔训,怕今日训唔醒。
刚爬上床,电话就响起。係佢!!! 虽然係短短的几分钟,心里却很甜。 :)
已经半年无与佢见面,心里那份牵挂很难形容。 短短的一通电话足以让我带笑入睡。仿佛好似佢就係我身边,抱住一样。 唔知何时何日可以让呢果情景变为现实。
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my birthday this year is much more happier than the last. even though last year - i celebrated it with a vacation, whilst i m slogging like a dog now, my heart is so much lighter. and because of that i am happy.
happiness could be so temporal, but true joy always spring from within. we could be enjoying ourselves with multitudes around us, but whether the feeling or the emotions stay - that's another matter.
just a phone call from a special someone could make me smile as i go to sleep. the few minutes brought hours, possibly days of warmth in the heart. :) hmmmm... i seem to be still on a 'high' that i couldnt really describe the special effect that phone call had on me.
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just side track a little - as i was getting out of the house this morning to go to work, someone left two teddy bears at my door. sweet? the gesture - yes, but the giver isnt really someone on my good list. i know i sound ungrateful. actually the teddies were from my ex. it was a promise made by him, years ago - that to every country he flies to, he will bring back a teddy for me. when i saw the teddies, i felt neither happy nor sad. i just shrugged it off and rushed off to work. in my heart, i just felt that if he was one who had kept his promises back then, we could have still be together to this day. so what's the point of keeping the promises now?
good thing was that it didnt dampen my moods or anything. in fact, i feel i couldnt care less. well, at least he didnt go crazy and throw poisonous snakes at my door, right?
well... i m glad to say that i have returned the teddies to him. i just put them back at his door. he's actually staying next door ... i m just glad that i did that.
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so...note to self:
happy birthday. have a blast, live a great life - coz you deserve one. do not let unworthy things or people distract you of your goals and dreams. remember, being happy is a choice. do what you need to do. live life the best you can.
(please dont say i m a self-obsessed 自恋狂 - i believe we need to be able to accept and love ourselves, before we can expect others to accept and love us)

Thursday, October 9, 2008

yummy evening that ended with rashes scare

Raspberry Chocolate Latte


红烧麵

last evening was great, finally get to meet up with a super good friend... havent seen her for at least half a year. food was nothing to shout about, the raspberry choc latte kept me awake...no, it made me crave for more :)

as we were sitting there, chatting and catching up... she noticed that there are rashes on my hands. it's kinda itchy, something like 风模. i didn't know what caused the rashes, hope it's not the drink coz i do plan to go and get another one to satisfy my craving. probably it's the food. coz another friend who was there with us commented that she sometimes get allergic reactions, after taking vegetarian food. well, i m not sure, coz this is not the first time i ate vegetarian food, and i have been to this place before, albeit quite a few years back.

after saying our bye byes, i decided to pop by the panel clinic on the way home. i dont want the rashes to flare up the next day. i had one bad experience with rashes, that forced me to take MC and stay home for 3 days, as the rashes will resurface when i m in air-conditioned and super cool room like the office. and it's not just the arms and legs, or the body, it even decided to pay a visit to my face. i dont want to risk looking like a monkey again, lol.

the doc gave me a jab, a bottle of calamine lotion with antibiotics and some anti-itch tablets... and i went home happily, still thinking abt the yummy raspberry choc latte. :)

thank goodness, my skin is clear now (touch wood!) ...

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Lousy Cupid

(picture courtesy of bitter stickgirl)



isn't that how we feel sometimes? what's cupid doing? or rather what's cupid doing wrong?